Personally i’m a little pro-chastity just because i want to travel and live a little before i settle down with kids and a wife. Though i guess dating would be more enjoyable when your traveling with someone you love. I don’t really care to enforce the “no sex before marriage” idea because for the most part it doesn’t happen – very often. Some people like to go for “test rides” before they commit and that’s fine. Sex is a normal and it plays a role in a good relationship. I’m no expert at relationships so i’m just going to identify my objective here. Without chastity there would be population problems, social problems, society problems; it’s a virtue that is heavily over looked. In my case i don’t see it as a very big problem – as long as you keep it to yourself. It does pose a problem when people are just fixated on those said ideas and fantasize and romanticize about it all day. It distracts and lowers the productivity level of a person. There is also a negative thing about trying to be chaste in that you cannot try to be chaste. It is not something you can focus on and try really hard to be because not only do you get negative attention but you yourself may start doing the reverse of what you intended. The opposite of what is intended happens when a person “tries” to be chaste is what i am saying. Even talking about it may provoke unintended ideas.
On the subject about sex, i’m not pro-homo but i understand that people are born under different conditions and circumstances that may influence their sexual orientation/preferences and it’s not only a fact that a girl can be born into a boys body (vice verse), there are asexual, over active sexuality like bisexuals, even those who are barren and have no sexual desire and those who withdraw from their sexuality temporarily until they’re good and ready (me?). Anyways we live in a new sort of world where tolerance is a must for everyone to have. Equality of women, equality of ethnicity, equality from any form of discrimination – this is the world we live in today. Hate is no longer an emotion we tolerate because we are trying to get through this life as a people. As humans we need to respect that everyone is different with their own perks. We have the right to be angry about being paired up with someone we don’t like but we all have a job to do; an objective to solve for the reason of being paired up – if and when we are paired up.
So the man is a little fruity, not manly enough, maybe even a fairy – there is no reason to pick on him because you cannot change a person’s nature without consequence of making that person unhappy for the rest of their life for not being who they wanted to be. Life is about redemption, redeeming yourself for who you were yesterday; to make mistakes but learn from them. If your mistake was being born (not that that’s ever a viable answer) then the more reason to be good at other things to make up for being a screw up. I know some homosexuals who are naturally witty, maybe cynical but intelligent, articulate and speak like they were breathing in public. There’s alot of qualities that these people of the grey spectrum seem to hold and it makes the world a better place to have such people in our lives. As i said i’m not pro-homo but i’m highly tolerant of the people around me and respect those i come in contact with.
Every person has a story to tell and a reason for why they may be who they are. You just need to understand why that “derp of a man” is always saying stupid things – because maybe he was never taught certain etiquette or has spent most of his time doing labor to support his family. This could be the very reason why his social skills are so bad. Teen pregnancy early fatherhood, no social life, late work schedules, life’s labor draining his very soul and no life at all other then what he watches on today’s movie screens, internet and television. It’s sad for some of the parents who come from a different country to start a new life in Canada but moving here was the first step to being successful and it’s made a world of difference for the children of this generation. I’d like to thank those people as they are the pioneers for their children’s future risking everything and starting with nothing to give their kids a head start.
So i’d like to end this post with Chastity is a virtue we should practice but not to focus on because of the negative effects. It would just make that potential partner happy to know that he/she may be the only person in their life and goes as far as to say they were made for each other. Which they can honestly say with a degree of truth. Every person has a story and reason for who they are; We are all warriors out here suffering life’s trials and we need to get through it all in one piece without making it harder for another person to finish life possibly broken. Sex is okay with whatever partners as long as you play safe, If you happen to fall in love make it go out with a bang because you only live once, objectifying women is bad, bullying is bad, hating is bad – the list goes on but this is basically everything i wanted to say.