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Defiance; This is the natural instinct that fuels a human spirit’s motivation. It is the power to resist being assimilated and losing your personal identity. It is the ability to say no to a bigger power that is in the wrong and change the world and make it right. Without this concept there is only apathy. Selflessness is only a virtue if you understand the wisdom of evil in greed and dangers of abundance. And the evil in greed is that it leads to the hoarding trend in life and that it instills a mentality that becomes a nature to continue to hoard. There must be a balance in all things you do and even have. If you are struggling with daily life and everything is a challenge, you are doing it right. Life is about exploring and trying new things. Expressing your true self the way you want to be seen while understanding with action comes consequence. Understanding this consequence allows you to hold back from any unintended desire to do things you shouldn’t. There is always a reason for everything and if it happens, it may just be the way the dice rolls and depending on how you look at it you could count yourself lucky or unlucky.
Hidden from sight for years it is the quality of vigor and consistency. There was always that one quality that i couldn’t understand that i really needed. And it starts when you are a kid where you did everything you wanted without hesitation. Defiance is healthy and if it wasn’t for this attribute we would crumble under everyday challenges. It allows us the building blocks to push forward and speak out loud. Public speaking is all about defiance where you need to raise your voice to be heard and to maybe sometimes speak over another in order to get your opinions out. Apologizing of course for doing so but you are priority in your life and if you don’t speak out you won’t have it the way you wanted it to be.
Commitment, life is about doing things and seeing things through. You stick with it until you get it or until the boat sinks. But all you got to do when that boat sinks figuratively is to get up again and try something different. Consistency, persistence and perseverance; All these words lead to defiance and even though being defiant against the authorities is dangerous and wrong. Sometimes if you stand for something right and the system is wrong then you need to be defiant. Though again we all live in our own little world so sometimes we can be narrow and misunderstand situations so know that we can’t always be right. If you are the minority in the democracy ask why this is, maybe you’re really on the wrong side but also people may be misinformed on the other side. So be defiant and stick your neck out and hope you can pull through but know the consequence of your actions and opinions. If ever you are found on the wrong side (bad side) know that your actions will backfire and you reap what you sow so to speak. Baddies never get away with their crimes there is always a paper trail.